Cleavage:TheTool of New Woman

Cleavage : Woman’s Weapon

The new woman has a lethal weapon now : Her own personalized Cleavage which is now on display for the common man !

You can see it easily while watching these women on screen -in talent shows / reality shows / interviews / Awards nights or in print media in newspapers and magazines and yes all over on social media !

They may be walking with friends / family ; they make sure their cleavage is prominent to the prying eyes ( no now it's actually not for the prying eyes but for any type of eyes ).

I sometimes pity that male interviewer who is forcibly made to sit right opposite the cleavage popping sight and he has to ensure his eyes do no popping ! I remember when decades back Priyanka Chopra after returning from winning the Miss world title was being interviewed by Shekar Suman ; he tried his best to discipline his eyes . He didn't allow his eyes to go below her chin ! The lethality of Priyanka’s weapon was no mean issue .

However Malaika Arora’s cleavage has lost its lethality as it’s blatantly on display permanently . You don't show your Armoury to the world everyday . Who will get affected then ? Now with the débutante Sara and Jhanvi Kapoor ; it's surely creating the impact . I could see even the seventy plus gentlemen gawk at these girl’s weapons with boyish  admiration!

Though I don't move in a society which freely showcases this typical weapon in real but of late I have started bumping into one odd girl /lady who wears her cleavage up her torso .

Now I am sure the women like me are getting influenced to some extent ;after all knowledge about the lethality of our hidden weapon had just become known to us too !!!

The GoodThings Around Us

We are constantly being reminded of all the bad things that are happening around us on a daily basis. Why cant we talk about good things. How easily we ignore the GoodThings in our daily life. You get up in the morning and wow you are not only alive and kicking, you can just stretch your arm , pick up your mobile and force your eyes to focus on the screen to read as to what have you missed while you were asleep! And voila right in your bedroom you are getting minimum five Good Morning  salutations. It sure brings a smile to your face though as Indian humans we have not yet come to terms to wishing Good Morning / Good Night to our spouses lying right next to us in our bed but we feel obliged to reply to all the whatsapp Good Mornings for sure. Isn't this a GoodThing.
We get up and we drink warm water with added lemon juice or honey. Wow we just poured some terrifically healthy thing in our intestines unlike what our parents had: a boiling water milk tea with Mary Biscuits! And yes our tea is now exotic blend of spices and  herbs  and yea our tea time biscuits are now oats/ honey/ ragi /wheat all with so many health benefits.
So happy morning. GoodThings are happening with us!    
 

My tryst with history and Delhi roads

India gate seems to have seriously taken the history chapters unlike me .While going to my destination,I took Shershah road and while returning I saw Shahjahan road . Thoroughly confused if these two great rulers were same or different , I assumed the former thought and took the wrong road as expected !
After going kilometers ahead , I realized my history chapters knowledge was f* all.  I instantly learnt that Shershah and Shahjahan were different rulers and so are the roads that connect the India gate .I returned and waited for Shershah road to appear which I had conveniently left behind and being one way I would have to take the entire circumference . I moved slowly trying to remember my history chapters . I saw Akbar road but could not establish relation between Shershah and Shahjahan with Akbar so I decided to move ahead . I was looking for a much easier history makers name . Then I saw Ashoka road and I knew this one ruler was a cool one so this road would lead me to the road to my house ! And I did reach . 

POWER OF PEN

I was there with you  yesterday whole day

Did you come to know about it?

I even spent the evening with you

Did you come to know about it?

I held you captive till past midnight

Did you come to know about it?

you were absent ;yet you were present

 Did you come to know about it?

I made you peep at me through my pen

Did you come to know about it?

You saw me, you smiled at me

 Did you come to know about it?

You ended our meeting  abruptly

 You went missing in the morning along with my heart

 You are holding my heart captive

But  I am sure you will never come  to know about it.

SHUT UP AND BOUNCE

Sparking Change

 I strongly feel every body can bring a change in and around self. I want to groom the  Urban Indian Mothers with two way purpose- first I would be able to revise and breathe in what I   plan to follow but miss out due to various pressures life throws me in every day. Second I will be able to give India - emotionally balanced youth in currant times and for the future.
I have started spreading the message around me . I meet ladies from various strata of life and I observe their behavior / attitude  pattern. Most of the times I realize in this era of technology,  all urban mothers are craving to be tech savvy .Women have finally begin to flaunt their gadgets like as men used to do 5 years back. Men in any case never discussed issues related to home and kids. It was always the woman trying to find out how the other lady was handling relationship issues. Yes relationship Management was learnt by all women by discussing different types of problems. I myself used to seek information from House wives as to how do they make their children do their H.W or how do they make sure they remember to honour notices sent form kids' school. They taught me they used to stick such notices in the kitchen. They also taught me how systematically they go about spending time with their kids while he/ she does H.W even though the ladies were not that educated to understand the maths problems. But their presence made the child put in efforts and the results always showed. I also learnt from them how to start Forced discipline in early stages of child's life so that he learns to follow  self discipline as he grows up. 
Unfortunately  now days no mother discusses such topics. I hear only the 'Best Parlour in town where the best pedicure is given after the lady sees my unkempt feet. When I resist saying "I don't have time"...the young mother will add a statement , " but you deserve to pamper yourself because you are worth it". The other lady would show case her stylish mobile announcing proudly making sure every one around listens ," my husband gifted me saying you will emanate class with this smart phone" . even my husband rebukes me every day, "look at the  horrible mobile set you carry to the parties. why don't you buy a smart phone.I avoid confrontations and say "I don't  have time to rummage through various shops in the market for a mobile set " he debates,"buy on-line". I debate in my mouth - Do I need it?
Buying has become so easy.. Any woman(including me) can spend hours surfing On-line Shopping websites. We can practically order any thing On- Line and we do that even if there is no need to buy that item!
I want to bring back the 'Lost Indian Woman'. I want to change the scenario in a manner that the woman of today can understand the 'need' of the hour. What is Important - Our own personal need or the Nation's need is to be honored. Yes by spending time in instilling values and discipline in our kids we would be meeting the Nation's basic need i.e the give it Balanced Citizens. Technologically we as a Nation have catapulted but we are loosing ground on ethics. I hardly see any one practicing self Discipline nowadays . I want to bring in this change by setting personal example and advocating vociferously to all my urban fellow women.

Cosmetics For Matured Indian Urban Women

Ever since the day I stepped into maturity of my chronological age, I started realizing most cosmetics have stopped showing result on my facial skin. The skin as it is was a rough  tough and neglected sorts since last 2 decades so the common products had probably given up on my skin. I tried searching through the net, the glossy magazines and even through those weekend advise given in newspapers for the right list of cosmetics that I can safely use and yet look dignified when I step out of my house especially for the day/evening parties but unfortunately I found most cosmetics mentioned are meant for women less than 35. In fact they rarely write about makeup / hairstyles for matured women. The country can't ignore the matured gorgeous women. Thanks to Sridevi and Madhuri Dixit who fortunately chose not to hibernate and hide their skin from public view. I am glad they chose to create example of beauty beyond barriers of age. I did try to experiment what these matured beauties promoted as the cosmetic world used them somehow since they were vocal about their faces but I did not find solace in the brands I learnt from either of the Bollywood beauties whether serving or retired!
I then thought of learning my way. I visited the Big Malls in Delhi, studied the products content, and allowed my face to be subjected by those experimental saleswomen who sold brands which you generally can't even pronounce correctly. The products were costly no doubt. I started saving. I knew I have to splurge in good scientific brands. the good things about these good brands was the salesgirls gave free samples to try and then confirm the products goodness. As I tried the samples more and more I learnt I was generally on the right path. I discovered ladies who could vouch by those brands and I developed faith. I started buying one by one each month.
I recently came across a study - Jury awards for the best brands. To my utter happiness I found most of them were on my dressing table. I can now educate my matured urban Indian fellow  ladies as to which products are practically/ realistically good.
The list goes on like this-

• Face Wash - Body Shop / Mary Kay
• Toner - Body Shop/ Artistry - Amway/ Forest Essential
• Wrinkle lifting serum concentrate- Estee Lauder/ Kiehl's
• Fairness essence- Artistry- Amway/ Mary Kay/Vichy
• Spot Corrector- Oriflame
• Moisturiser- Clinque/ Kiehl.
• Sun Screen- La Rosa Posay 50 spf/ Biotique50 spf
• Peel- Artistry
• Mask- Mary Kay/ Oriflame 3D
• Scrub- Dermabrasion set - Mary Kay
• Lipstick- Clinque / Mac.
• Blusher- Mac
• Eye Shadow- Mac
• Eye pencil- Chambor Dazzle.
• Eye liner- Revlon Fabuliner.
• Primer- Mary Kay
• Concealer- Mary Kay
• Foundation- Estee Lauder
• Hair shampoo and conditioner for dry frizzy hair- Forest Essential/ Vichy (targets Hair loss)/ Body shop.
• Hair Softener- L'Oreal
• Body spray-Banmboo and Lotus from Mary kay/ Gardenia from Body Shop.

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